Why the Virtilité Method?
When faced with sexual function issues, who can you turn to to talk and seek advice? It's not easy to confide in your friends or your wife about this topic.
The urologist will look at the piping and likely recommend surgery. The primary care physician will look at cardiovascular function to rule out heart conditions and prescribe medications to manage lower cholesterol, blood pressure levels, manage blood sugar levels which may cause ED, or the blue pill to force an erection, ignoring the penis' inner wisdom.
If Penis isn't performing to your liking, take it as an invitation to LISTEN IN and understand its deeper desire.
It is my experience that every penile and reproductive issue is bio-individually unique and could come from a combination of factors such as hormonal imbalances, cardiovascular deconditioning, lack of nerve endings sensitivity, nutritional deficiencies, emotional overwhelm, subconscious fear, shame or guilt becoming conscious from cultural, religious, parental conditioning or past trauma, mental disconnect, feelings of loss, depression and lack of confidence in life, and so much more. Surgery or the blue pill won't fix this!
The Virilité Method is Emma's proprietary approach to guiding a man to look at the complete picture around his sexual health and helping him design a comprehensive and customized remediation plan addressing several angles such as nutrition, fitness, balance and stress management and sexual training. The plan will also empower a man to link in other relevant specialists for further evaluation or treatment as need be.
The Virilité Method is also a Coaching Container that normalizes speaking about sex feeling at ease, heard, and safe. Emma holds no judgement and her coaching skills enables her to hold a comfortable space in which you will connect somatically with your own body, heart and soul. It's a powerful experience to reconnect with yourself, process what needs processing and feel yourself begin to heal witnessed by her, inside the coaching session.
5 Pillars of
The Virtilité Method
A one stop shop for a man to level up his sexual vitality, virility and fertility with nutrition, fitness, lifestyle upgrades and solo and/or coupled Tantric and holistic sex practices. The method is modular and Emma will work with you to choose and customize the most relevant aspects of the method to reach your goals.
Nutrition For Hormonal Balance and Strong Erections
Every bite you eat can either support or undermine the trifecta of great sex. Emma developed HORMONIZE CLEANSE - proprietary dietary guidelines, meal plans and recipes to:
• Boost testosterone, reduce estrogen dominance and stress hormones
• Improve cardiovascular health
• Increase nerves sensitivity
Fitness For Stamina
Real Talk: How long can you stay in the missionary position before your hips lock up, your glutes tire out, you get distracted or bored, your erection softens and you need a position break?
Tune-up your fitness regimen to be able to follow the intelligent intuitive lead of your cock and go as far and as long as it wants to in sacred union with yourself or your lover without needing to disconnect.
Balance: Cultivate Self-Awareness and Presence
Do you find it hard to get out of your head during sex and be present and connected moment to moment?
We're in bed as we are in life. If feeling, stressed and overly consumed by thoughts that's how we show up in the bedroom. This disconnect from our body and the here and now is often cause for ED and PE. The true essence of a man is His Presence.
When a man is present in the here and now, his 5 senses engaged, he is at its most primal and powerful. Using tools such as breath work, yoga, body meditation, and other balanced lifestyle strategies, you'll learn to better your self-awareness of where your energy is directed and cultivate a more magnetic masculine presence in the here and now. It will help reduce stress, increase a sense of relaxation and freedom in the day to day and improve connection and performance in the sexual act.
There is one more aspect. Presence in sex is also difficult to hold sometimes because it brings about a vulnerable state where unconscious thoughts, past hurt, and old beliefs may surface as insecurities affecting a man's erections. Practicing self-awareness and presence with the right tools supports a man's abilities to notice and process his subconscious self.
Go Deeper: Shadow Work and Tantric Sex Practices For Men
Do you lack confidence and power in the bedroom or find your sex uninspired and repetitive? The penis never lies. The state of your erection, your ability to last for as long as you want, and even the necessity for fantasy or porn to get off is a reflection of your state of mind in the moment, conscious or subconscious. The path to rock hard erection and epic sex is connection between cock, heart and mind and thus, dismantling all that prevent their integration.
It may be time to go deeper and examine and re-frame your sexual conditioning since childhood, your beliefs system and heal past hurt and trauma as they may limit your free sexual expression and prevent you from showing up as the Man you desire to be.
Emma will guide you through shadow work, integrating your inner child, reclaiming your masculine power and defining for yourself what it means to be a Man. She will also guide you through self-pleasure practice curriculum, ranging from beginner to advanced level, to develop your skills as a Tantric Lover, and reconnect and love yourself first.
Tantric Sex For Couples
How well do you know your partner's body, their sexual desires, their fears and their loves? Whether newly wed or married for 30 years with the pressure of daily life, children and work, it's never too late to explore your sexuality together and unlock your body and partnership's potential.
Working with Emma, you'll be carving time weekly for an explorative sex, love and relationship session. Tantric sex education and led practices can be used to access more and better sex together, heal sexual trauma and create safety, and discover new orgasmic heights together. It can also lead to the discovery of sex as a spiritual pathway - Sacred Sex - for yourself as an individual but also for your relationship container, inviting a deeper spiritual connection. There is no greater intimacy than being seen, heard, understood, desired and loved in a safe and respectful relationship.
