Over time, my work has naturally attracted clients who are ready for a more conscious, embodied relationship with sexuality:

Men navigating sexual confidence and performance challenges.

I often work with men experiencing erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, low desire, or performance pressure — particularly in midlife, when stress, health changes, and life demands begin to impact sexual vitality. My teaching supports men in moving beyond quick fixes and developing a more holistic, self-aware relationship with their bodies and pleasure.

Men preparing for deeper intimacy and leadership in their lives.

Some of my clients are men who want to heal past relational wounds, shift unhelpful patterns, and cultivate greater emotional presence, confidence, and relational maturity as they prepare for partnership or long-term intimacy.

Couples seeking deeper connection through conscious intimacy.

I also work with couples at various stages of life who wish to strengthen emotional closeness, communication, and intimacy through presence-based, educational practices. I support couples navigating ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and alternative relationship structures with an emphasis on clarity, communication, and mutual respect.

While my work resonates most strongly with these groups, I support individuals and couples who feel aligned with an educational, embodied approach to sexuality and personal growth.

MEET THE COACH

Bonjour, I'm Emma!

Emma Galland is a sexuality educator, speaker, and creator of Tantric Awakenings, an educational platform devoted to helping men develop a grounded, confident, and embodied relationship with their sexuality.

Her work focuses on teaching men how to cultivate presence, self-awareness, and emotional capacity through conscious, non-goal-oriented self-pleasure, breathwork, and somatic practices. Rather than emphasizing performance or technique, Emma’s approach centers on helping men build internal safety, deepen sensation awareness, and relate to pleasure as a practice of presence and self-responsibility.

Emma works with men navigating challenges such as sexual shame, performance pressure, erectile instability, premature ejaculation, low desire, and disconnection from their bodies. Her role is educational and experiential—not clinical or therapeutic—and is designed to complement other forms of personal growth or professional support.

Drawing from Tantric philosophy, somatic education, nervous system awareness, and holistic lifestyle principles, Emma offers men practical tools to:

  • Develop greater bodily awareness and emotional regulation

  • Shift from performance-driven sexuality to presence-based intimacy

  • Build sexual confidence rooted in self-trust rather than outcome

  • Cultivate a healthier, more conscious relationship with pleasure

Emma is the creator of Sound Self-Discovery Meditations (SSDM), an educational audio library that guides men through structured self-pleasure practices designed to support embodiment, awareness, and self-connection.

She also leads classes, workshops, and membership programs focused on masculine sexual vitality, relational presence, and conscious intimacy.

Her work is grounded in ethical, consent-based sexuality education and is intended for adults seeking a more integrated, self-aware, and embodied experience of sexuality.

Why Invest In Your Sexual Discovery.

My work is rooted in the understanding that sexuality is not simply about performance or release, but about presence, awareness, and how we relate to our bodies and to one another.

Through my own journey of sexual discovery, I came to see that many people are taught a narrow, goal-oriented model of pleasure that does not reflect how desire, arousal, and fulfillment actually work—especially in long-term relationships or over the course of a lifetime. When sexuality is approached through pressure, striving, or imitation rather than embodiment and listening, disconnection and frustration often follow for everyone involved.

I teach that pleasure deepens when individuals learn to slow down, soften unnecessary effort, and attune to sensation, breath, and emotional states. When partners understand that different bodies—and different nervous systems—respond to different forms of attention, intimacy becomes more spacious, responsive, and mutually nourishing.

My calling is to help men cultivate grounded presence, self-trust, and embodied confidence. When a man is relaxed, attentive, and attuned, intimacy becomes less about proving something and more about connection. In this way, lovers become catalysts for one another’s growth—fostering trust, confidence, mutual respect, and a deeper sense of freedom within the relationship.

Training, Education & Professional Background

Since 2009, I have invested consistently in my education in Tantra, embodiment, and conscious sexuality, studying with a range of respected teachers and participating in advanced trainings on an ongoing basis.

During the COVID-19 period, I completed a comprehensive certification in Sex, Love, and Relationship Coaching with Layla Martin and became certified in the VITA™ Method (Vital & Integrated Tantric Approach) — a globally recognized educational framework that integrates modern understandings of nervous system regulation, somatic awareness, and relational dynamics with traditional teachings from Tantra and Daoism. I also earned specialization in Male Sexuality, Female Sexuality and Tantric Sex for Couples.

This training informs my work as a sexuality educator by supporting adults in examining conditioned beliefs around sex, love, pleasure, and intimacy, and in developing more conscious, embodied, and self-directed ways of relating to their sexuality and relationships. My role is educational and experiential rather than clinical or therapeutic.

I am committed to creating learning environments grounded in empathy, respect, consent, and personal agency. I work with individuals and couples from diverse cultural, spiritual, and religious backgrounds, and I approach sexuality education with cultural sensitivity, inclusivity, and non-judgment.

All adults who feel aligned with this work are welcome here.

Additional Certifications & Professional Qualifications:

  • MBA

  • Integrative Nutrition Health Coach (IIN)

  • Registered Yoga Teacher (200-Hour YTT)

  • NASM Certified Personal Trainer

  • AFAA Group Fitness Instructor

In the press

Emma was recognized by NY Weekly Magazine as one of the top 20 influential female entrepreneurs to watch out for in 2025!

Fun Facts About Me.

  • I am French-American and have lived and worked across multiple countries, relocating more than twenty times. This global life has deeply shaped my understanding of culture, intimacy, embodiment, and human connection.

  • I am the author of Feeding Success: A Nutrition Blueprint for Busy Professionals and Business Travelers, a practical guide to using nutrition and lifestyle as a strategic advantage for vitality, performance, and personal fulfillment. The book is available on Amazon.

  • My work is rooted in body liberation, self-acceptance, and conscious embodiment. I have taught yoga and somatic practices in a wide range of environments—including clothing-optional spaces—always with the intention of helping people experience their bodies with respect, safety, and self-love. My philosophy is simple: nudity is not sexuality; it is presence.

  • Outside of my professional work, I am an avid motorcyclist and enjoy long solo rides as well as time on the racetrack—spaces where focus, freedom, and embodied awareness meet.

  • I have a deep appreciation for simple, nourishing foods and could happily live on a short list that includes tropical fruit, leafy greens, avocado, oysters, and cacao.

  • I approach relationships and sexuality without judgment. My lived experience includes monogamous partnership as well as ethical non-monogamous and open relationship structures, allowing me to meet clients with nuance, respect, and real-world understanding—no matter how they choose to love.

  • I currently serve as the Tantric Sex Expert at WeAreNSFW in New York City, where I lead monthly Tantric experiences for couples in a curated, consent-centered environment.

  • The ocean is my sanctuary. I swim year-round whenever possible, and the beach remains my favorite place to reset, breathe, and return to myself.

FAQS

What are your boundaries as a Tantric coach?

I hold strong, sacred boundaries with every client to maintain a safe, clear, and powerful coaching container. There is absolutely no flirting, no sexual or sensual energy exchanged, and I remain fully clothed at all times—even when a session calls for you to be in a state of physical vulnerability. I do not perform. I do not seduce. I guide. I protect. I stand at the threshold of your transformation like a guardian at the gates—fiercely loving, unwavering in my devotion to your growth. This space is not casual. It is sacred. As a VITA-certified Tantric Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach, I’ve personally received the deep work I now offer. I know its power. And I am deeply committed to upholding the lineage, wisdom, and ethical responsibility of the traditions I carry—Tantra, Daoism, and the sacred feminine path. This is where the magic happens—not because of who I am, but because of how safe you feel to become who you truly are.

Is this coaching only for men with “problems” in the bedroom?

No. While some men come to Emma to heal erectile issues, premature ejaculation, or low desire, many are already successful—and feel something is missing. They crave depth, edge, intimacy, stamina, and the ability to truly connect—without losing themselves. This work is about sexual sovereignty, not just fixing symptoms.

I’m nervous about being vulnerable. Is that normal?

Totally. Most men are conditioned to suppress emotion, disconnect from their bodies, and avoid asking for help—especially around sex. Emma creates a fiercely loving, nonjudgmental space that honors your pace and protects your privacy. Vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s the gateway to real power.

What makes this coaching different from therapy or traditional sex coaching?

This is not talk therapy. This is not performance coaching. This is a sacred, somatic journey into your masculine core—your body, your breath, your sex, your soul. Emma guides you through a fusion of Tantra, embodiment, and holistic health practices that awaken your deepest vitality, erotic power, and clarity. It's a full-system recalibration that impacts your love life, your confidence, and your leadership. This is coaching for the man who’s ready to reclaim his fire—and hold it with mastery.

Is this work appropriate if I’m in a relationship—or single?

Yes. This work is about you. Whether you want to reignite your relationship, heal past wounds, or become a more present, powerful lover for future partners—this journey meets you where you are and prepares you for what you deeply desire.

Do you offer in-person coaching or events?

Yes—for group coaching events, retreats, and workshops.

No—for private 1:1 or couples coaching sessions, which are offered exclusively online via Zoom.

Here’s why I don’t coach individuals or couples in person:

1/ Energetic and Boundary Integrity: Working remotely allows me to maintain the strong boundaries required for this deep work. (See Boundaries FAQ)

2/ Preserving Your Sacred Space: My physical presence in your home or private space could unconsciously shift the energy. Coaching online allows your transformation to unfold in your own energetic field—undisturbed and fully yours.

3/ Ritual and Preparation: Before each session, I engage in a personal ritual to attune to your energy and create a sacred space remotely. This process is vital to the depth and clarity I hold in each session—and would be compromised if I were traveling to meet in person.

That said, I do offer in-person group events where the sacred container is consciously created and held for a collective field. I’ve led nude yoga, Tantric embodiment, and sensual awakening workshops for groups both small and large—with the same level of care, reverence, and integrity as in my private sessions.

What can I expect from your Tantric sex coaching program?

All private sessions are held via Zoom, camera on (yours can be turned off at any time).

Working online ensures the space remains safe, contained, and energetically clear—allowing you to relax into your own environment while I hold the integrity of the coaching container.

Each session is 90 minutes and includes two parts:

1/ Verbal Coaching – where we speak deeply and honestly about your goals, blocks, patterns, and desires in sex, love, and relationships.

2/ Somatic + Tantric Practice – tailored to support your growth and session intention.

You can expect a range of practices, including:

  • Breathwork and meditation

  • Embodiment and movement practices

  • Somatic coaching to rewire unconscious patterns and beliefs

  • Sexual energy cultivation, including Tantric masturbation, ejaculation control, and sex muscle strengthening (from beginner to advanced)

    Each session is completely private and confidential. No two sessions are the same, because your journey is uniquely yours.

    To begin this work, you must commit to a minimum of 10 sessions. This level of depth, transformation, and trust requires consistency—and the container is designed to support real, lasting change.

What can couples expect from your Tantric sex coaching program?

Couples coaching sessions are held via Zoom, camera on (yours can be turned off at any time).

The structure is similar to my private men’s coaching, but here we enter the shared field of your relationship—inviting more connection, erotic exploration, and intimacy between you.

The program serves two paths:

1/ To enhance physical and emotional connection – by deepening conversation skills, your lovemaking, expanding orgasmic potential, and cultivating more presence and pleasure together.

2/ To explore sacred sexuality – weaving your erotic connection into your path of personal and spiritual growth.

Each session begins with a shared intention and then moves into guided practices to foster real-time communication, trust, and co-regulation. From there, we explore a Tantric theme or ritual such as:

  • Tantric Yoni or Lingam massage exchange (under my coaching and consent guidance)

  • Breathwork and primal energy activation

  • Techniques to expand orgasmic capacity and rediscover the body as a temple of love

    While intercourse is never part of the live session, I do guide you to touch each other, explore each other's arousal, and reconnect to your erotic polarity in a safe, respectful, and sacred coaching space. You’ll be fully clothed or partially undressed depending on the practice and your comfort, always within a container of professionalism and clear energetic boundaries. This is a profound journey into love, sex, and sacred union—guided with care, reverence, and transformative depth.

Can holistic nutrition help with issues like erectile dysfunction or fertility?

Absolutely. Nutrition is one of the most overlooked yet essential pillars of sexual health. Your sexual vitality is not separate from your physical health—it’s a mirror of it.

Through a holistic and functional lens, I help you optimize what I call the Sexual Health Trifecta:

  • Blood flow and vascular health (essential for strong erections and stamina)

  • Nerve sensitivity (for greater sensation, pleasure, and orgasmic capacity)

  • Hormonal balance (especially testosterone, estrogen detoxification, and stress hormone regulation)

    Erectile dysfunction, low libido, and infertility often have nutritional, metabolic, or lifestyle roots—from nutrient deficiencies and gut health imbalances to inflammation, sleep disruption, and toxic overload.

    I’ll help you understand how food, movement, and supplementation can:

  • Boost testosterone naturally

  • Support semen quality and sperm count

  • Improve vascular integrity and circulation

  • Regulate mood and stress for enhanced libido

    This is not about restriction—it’s about eating in alignment with your desire, vitality, and masculine power. Sexual mastery isn’t just in your mind or genitals—it’s built cell by cell, meal by meal.

What is holistic nutrition—and how is it different from traditional dieting?

Holistic nutrition is not a diet. It's a way of living and nourishing your entire being—body, mind, and sex.

Where traditional diets often focus on short-term fixes, restriction, or aesthetic goals, holistic nutrition supports long-term vitality, hormonal balance, and energy alignment. It’s not just about the food on your plate—it’s about your lifestyle, stress, sleep, digestion, emotional state, and even your relationship to pleasure.

In my coaching, I tailor nutritional support to help optimize:

  • Sexual health and libido Hormonal harmony (testosterone, cortisol, estrogen detoxification)

  • Blood sugar and mood regulation

  • Gut and liver health (crucial for energy and desire)

    This is about eating in a way that fuels your erections, orgasms, stamina, confidence, and power—not just your abs. Holistic nutrition is sustainable. It’s personalized. And it’s about reconnecting to your body’s wisdom—so you can feel strong, alive, and sexually lit from the inside out.

What does the $6000 private coaching investment include?

You’ll receive 10 deep-dive, 75-minute sessions with Emma over 3 months, along with personalized practices, accountability, and guided tools to integrate your transformation between sessions. Expect breathwork, movement, nutrition, self-pleasure rituals, and masculine embodiment training—curated for your body and goals.

Can I speak to Emma before committing?

Yes—once your application is submitted and approved, you'll be invited to a 30-minute connection call with Emma to explore mutual fit and ask any remaining questions.

To honor the sacredness of this work and protect the container from misaligned energy, a $300 fee is required to book the call. This amount is fully refunded if we move forward into the 10-session coaching package—or can be applied to another offering if it's a better fit.

Emma only works with clients who are a full-bodied YES—men who are committed, coachable, and ready to invest in their transformation. This call ensures your desires align with the depth of the journey she offers. This is not a casual consultation. It’s a sacred threshold—your first step into powerful, embodied change.

Are payment plans available?

Yes, a 3-month payment plan is available upon request. Full payment is preferred to create energetic commitment and focus, but flexibility is offered for aligned clients.

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