My specialty clients found me (thank you!) and I work best with:

Men who struggle with erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation.

More often men between their 40's and 70's, age at which signs of andropause appear, stress and health issues is starting to take its toll and the old ways to fuck no longer work. I work best with men ready to look beyond the blue pill and quick fixes and truly understand what's going on in there, trust to their cock's wisdom and approach the problem holistically: achieve vibrant health physically, mentally and emotionally and reframe their beliefs around sexuality and explore new ways to relate and handle to their cocks.

Men ready for a relationship and ready to heal past hurt, change destructive habits, learn what women truly want and acquire the tools to create the relationship they most desire.

Often in their 20's and 30's, my clients have been hurt, emasculated and confused by the women in their lives (or carry a Father wound), and have gradually hidden who they truly are, their fears and their desires and may feel a bit lost, less confident and it's affecting their life in general. My best clients are those ready to find their masculine power again and to become the leaders of their life, their family, and their community by healing and integrating their sexuality (shadow work!). I find that the clients I attract are men with a spiritual sensitivity, be it a connection to nature, a connection to religion or zen philosophy, meditation practitioners, martial artists, visual artists, musicians, yoga teachers, and coaches.

Couples ready to explore Tantric Sex together.

My clients are all couples in love looking to deepen their love and connection. Some are about to get married and wanting to learn tools to increase the success of their future marriage. Others have been married for 7 years and feeling the pressures of work, co-parenting and chronic exhaustion with no time for sex. Others have 30 years of marriage, recently retired and feeling a bit disconnected from each other and wanting a second honeymoon. I had one courageous couple who hired me when she was battling brain cancer, seeking nutritional support and guidance for her to reclaim her power to orgasm, lost during cancer, and reconnect her brain to her pussy. It worked...

My couple's sessions are like date nights held during day time:).

MEET THE COACH

Bonjour, I'm Emma!

I’m a Certified Tantric and Holistic Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach. I help men develop a glorious relationship with their body and sexuality and overcome erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and sex/porn addiction. I also help men and couples have better, more connected sex and connect effectively around their fears, desires and love.

I'm also a holistic health and nutrition coach, yoga teacher, and personal trainer. In that capacity, I help people overcome chronic illnesses, heal reproductive and hormonal health issues to emerge vibrantly healthy.

You may wonder what a Tantric Sex Coach does and why I became one.

SEX AS LIFE FORCE

Great sex and loving relationships create a foundation for vibrant health, self-discovery, self-love, and self-acceptance. Sexual energy is the ultimate life force -source of all creation - a new life, the arts, a business even reversing disease. No amount of broccoli, early bedtime and running will bring as much self-love and healing the way a full body orgasm will! Fall madly in love and you'll even forget to eat, drink and sleep yet you'll be bursting with energy with that unmistakable glow and the desire to create!

MY BREAKING MOMENT

For a couple years, I struggled with ulcerative colitis, “an inflammatory bowel disease (IBD) that causes inflammation and ulcers (sores) in your colon.” I managed my condition with diet and lifestyle, but flare-ups occurred. The flare-ups felt connected to my inability to openly share certain desires with my beloved husband for fear of losing him.

So, one New Year's Day, in the depth of my emotional pain, out of love and respect for us both, I found the courage to speak my truth to my husband. Our decade together as married partners ended. We uncoupled consciously and peacefully and transitioned from a married couple to mutually respectful platonic friends. My ulcerative colitis went into remission, and I enrolled in Tantric Coaching School.

MY SEXUAL EMPOWERMENT STORY

After my marriage ended, I met a man of incredible presence. He had abundant awareness, strength, safety, and unwavering love. I cracked open like never before, fully embodying the receiving energy of the feminine, where women’s strongest power resides. I experienced being pushed past my breaking emotional point, the pieces of my broken heart separating open, allowing a torrential flow of pain through me. I felt sexual pleasure and repeated orgasms as if all the grief, shame, and guilt I had felt throughout the years turned into a vast ocean of love, compassion, and forgiveness. I dissolved and floated away in wave after wave of orgasms an intensity and diversity I'd never experienced before: clitoral and G-spot orgasms, cervical orgasms, but also cry-gasms and brain-gasms. He held me strong in his presence through it all and never stopped making love to me. I felt seen and understood without judgment. I began to see the world and my life in a new way. The experience was healing and transformative; I wasn't the same woman when I left him. I had processed and released past hurts, found lost parts of myself (inner child) and embraced them in, coming out more authentically me.

Then, I envisioned a new direction for my career that combines holistic nutrition and lifestyle coaching for hormonal balance and sexual vibrancy with the wisdom traditions of Tantra and Taoism. I aim to change how men and couples relate to and integrate their sexuality into their lives, to awaken and cultivate their own sexual life force energy to enhance their health and unlock their human potential: the Virtilité Method and Tantric Awakenings.

Why Invest In Your Sexual Discovery.

After my sexual awakening, I went on a journey of exploring my body’s full sexual potential. I sought to master the pathway to the orgasmic transformation I had experienced.

I found that a woman’s path to orgasm is NOT the same as a man's. To reach orgasm, a woman’s needs are often the opposite of a man’s needs. Women’s orgasms include surrendering, yielding, melting, softening, and being in a state of flow. That 75% of women cannot orgasm vaginally and that so many experience painful PMS symptoms and painful transitions to menopause is symptomatic of women disconnected from their true sexual nature and being stuck into the male template of sexual fulfillment. Everyone suffers.

By surrendering and softening, a woman heightens the polarity of masculine "penetrative" energy of a cis male.

A woman's feminine power comes into full force and is amplified when met with an equal and opposite match. Partnered sex with a magnetic, present, virile man with knowledge of women's sexual pathways, will allow both man and woman to move deeper into blissful and transformative sexual pleasure.

My calling is to help men awaken to their masculine presence and power. Great lovers are catalysts in their partner's sexual empowerment and healing. Lovers create freedom, understanding, respect, acceptance, and more confidence in their partners and themselves.

My Tantric Sex Coaching Credentials


In 2009, I began investing in my Tantric education, taking courses yearly from several masters. During COVID-19, I enrolled in a certifying Sex, Love, and Relationship Coaching Program with my favorite leader in the field, Layla Martin. 

I am now certified in the globally recognized VITA Method: Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach. The Method takes the most effective teachings of modern neurobiology, holistic somatic healing, and modern coaching and blends them with ancient wisdom and teachings from Tantra and Daoism.

This education and certification enables coaches like me to investigate and challenge limiting beliefs, mental constructs, unconscious patterns, and obstacles. I help my clients break free from old beliefs around sex, love, and relationships and create a new narrative for a better present and future rooted in their authentic selves.

With empathy, understanding, and zero judgment, I create a safe space for my clients to disclose their choices, desires, fears and lifestyles. I have been fortunate to work with people spanning cultures, continents, belief systems, and religions (Judaism, Christianity, Islam, Buddhism). I wholeheartedly respect my clients' views with a non-biased approach. All are welcome here.

In the press

Emma was recognized by NY Weekly Magazine as one of the top 20 influential female entrepreneurs to watch out for in 2025!

Fun Facts About Me.

  • I am French and American and worked and lived in many countries. I moved 25 times!

  • I published a book called “Feeding Success: A Nutrition Blueprint for Fuel Busy Professionals and Business Travelers”. It tells the story of how anyone can use nutrition and lifestyle as the key to unlocking their potential and as a competitive advantage to build the career and life of their dreams. You can find it on Amazon!

  • I teach free nude yoga classes on public nude beaches with students of all ages and genders. I've even taught nude yoga at Hedonism! I want people to know and experience that nudity and sexuality are two different things. Ultimately, embracing our nudity is self-love.

  • I love riding my motorcycle all year long, on solo adventures around the country, and on the race track.

  • I can live on black beans, mango, avocados, coconuts, kale, oysters and cacao.

  • I place no judgement on the relationship container of my clients and their sexual ways and I have experience being in a wonderful and long monogamous marriage, being in ethical non-monogamous relationships, in polyamorous relationships, and being in committed open relationships.

  • I am currently the Tantric Sex Expert at the famous WeareNSFW in New York City, leading Tantric events for couples monthly.

  • My happy place is the beach. I love swimming in the ocean all year round, in my birthday suit preferably:)

FAQS

What are your boundaries as a Tantric coach?

I hold strong, sacred boundaries with every client to maintain a safe, clear, and powerful coaching container. There is absolutely no flirting, no sexual or sensual energy exchanged, and I remain fully clothed at all times—even when a session calls for you to be in a state of physical vulnerability. I do not perform. I do not seduce. I guide. I protect. I stand at the threshold of your transformation like a guardian at the gates—fiercely loving, unwavering in my devotion to your growth. This space is not casual. It is sacred. As a VITA-certified Tantric Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach, I’ve personally received the deep work I now offer. I know its power. And I am deeply committed to upholding the lineage, wisdom, and ethical responsibility of the traditions I carry—Tantra, Daoism, and the sacred feminine path. This is where the magic happens—not because of who I am, but because of how safe you feel to become who you truly are.

Is this coaching only for men with “problems” in the bedroom?

No. While some men come to Emma to heal erectile issues, premature ejaculation, or low desire, many are already successful—and feel something is missing. They crave depth, edge, intimacy, stamina, and the ability to truly connect—without losing themselves. This work is about sexual sovereignty, not just fixing symptoms.

I’m nervous about being vulnerable. Is that normal?

Totally. Most men are conditioned to suppress emotion, disconnect from their bodies, and avoid asking for help—especially around sex. Emma creates a fiercely loving, nonjudgmental space that honors your pace and protects your privacy. Vulnerability isn’t weakness—it’s the gateway to real power.

What makes this coaching different from therapy or traditional sex coaching?

This is not talk therapy. This is not performance coaching. This is a sacred, somatic journey into your masculine core—your body, your breath, your sex, your soul. Emma guides you through a fusion of Tantra, embodiment, and holistic health practices that awaken your deepest vitality, erotic power, and clarity. It's a full-system recalibration that impacts your love life, your confidence, and your leadership. This is coaching for the man who’s ready to reclaim his fire—and hold it with mastery.

Is this work appropriate if I’m in a relationship—or single?

Yes. This work is about you. Whether you want to reignite your relationship, heal past wounds, or become a more present, powerful lover for future partners—this journey meets you where you are and prepares you for what you deeply desire.

Do you offer in-person coaching or events?

Yes—for group coaching events, retreats, and workshops.

No—for private 1:1 or couples coaching sessions, which are offered exclusively online via Zoom.

Here’s why I don’t coach individuals or couples in person:

1/ Energetic and Boundary Integrity: Working remotely allows me to maintain the strong boundaries required for this deep work. (See Boundaries FAQ)

2/ Preserving Your Sacred Space: My physical presence in your home or private space could unconsciously shift the energy. Coaching online allows your transformation to unfold in your own energetic field—undisturbed and fully yours.

3/ Ritual and Preparation: Before each session, I engage in a personal ritual to attune to your energy and create a sacred space remotely. This process is vital to the depth and clarity I hold in each session—and would be compromised if I were traveling to meet in person.

That said, I do offer in-person group events where the sacred container is consciously created and held for a collective field. I’ve led nude yoga, Tantric embodiment, and sensual awakening workshops for groups both small and large—with the same level of care, reverence, and integrity as in my private sessions.

What can I expect from your Tantric sex coaching program?

All private sessions are held via Zoom, camera on (yours can be turned off at any time).

Working online ensures the space remains safe, contained, and energetically clear—allowing you to relax into your own environment while I hold the integrity of the coaching container.

Each session is 90 minutes and includes two parts:

1/ Verbal Coaching – where we speak deeply and honestly about your goals, blocks, patterns, and desires in sex, love, and relationships.

2/ Somatic + Tantric Practice – tailored to support your growth and session intention.

You can expect a range of practices, including:

  • Breathwork and meditation

  • Embodiment and movement practices

  • Somatic coaching to rewire unconscious patterns and beliefs

  • Sexual energy cultivation, including Tantric masturbation, ejaculation control, and sex muscle strengthening (from beginner to advanced)

    Each session is completely private and confidential. No two sessions are the same, because your journey is uniquely yours.

    To begin this work, you must commit to a minimum of 10 sessions. This level of depth, transformation, and trust requires consistency—and the container is designed to support real, lasting change.

What can couples expect from your Tantric sex coaching program?

Couples coaching sessions are held via Zoom, camera on (yours can be turned off at any time).

The structure is similar to my private men’s coaching, but here we enter the shared field of your relationship—inviting more connection, erotic exploration, and intimacy between you.

The program serves two paths:

1/ To enhance physical and emotional connection – by deepening conversation skills, your lovemaking, expanding orgasmic potential, and cultivating more presence and pleasure together.

2/ To explore sacred sexuality – weaving your erotic connection into your path of personal and spiritual growth.

Each session begins with a shared intention and then moves into guided practices to foster real-time communication, trust, and co-regulation. From there, we explore a Tantric theme or ritual such as:

  • Tantric Yoni or Lingam massage exchange (under my coaching and consent guidance)

  • Breathwork and primal energy activation

  • Techniques to expand orgasmic capacity and rediscover the body as a temple of love

    While intercourse is never part of the live session, I do guide you to touch each other, explore each other's arousal, and reconnect to your erotic polarity in a safe, respectful, and sacred coaching space. You’ll be fully clothed or partially undressed depending on the practice and your comfort, always within a container of professionalism and clear energetic boundaries. This is a profound journey into love, sex, and sacred union—guided with care, reverence, and transformative depth.

Can holistic nutrition help with issues like erectile dysfunction or fertility?

Absolutely. Nutrition is one of the most overlooked yet essential pillars of sexual health. Your sexual vitality is not separate from your physical health—it’s a mirror of it.

Through a holistic and functional lens, I help you optimize what I call the Sexual Health Trifecta:

  • Blood flow and vascular health (essential for strong erections and stamina)

  • Nerve sensitivity (for greater sensation, pleasure, and orgasmic capacity)

  • Hormonal balance (especially testosterone, estrogen detoxification, and stress hormone regulation)

    Erectile dysfunction, low libido, and infertility often have nutritional, metabolic, or lifestyle roots—from nutrient deficiencies and gut health imbalances to inflammation, sleep disruption, and toxic overload.

    I’ll help you understand how food, movement, and supplementation can:

  • Boost testosterone naturally

  • Support semen quality and sperm count

  • Improve vascular integrity and circulation

  • Regulate mood and stress for enhanced libido

    This is not about restriction—it’s about eating in alignment with your desire, vitality, and masculine power. Sexual mastery isn’t just in your mind or genitals—it’s built cell by cell, meal by meal.

What is holistic nutrition—and how is it different from traditional dieting?

Holistic nutrition is not a diet. It's a way of living and nourishing your entire being—body, mind, and sex.

Where traditional diets often focus on short-term fixes, restriction, or aesthetic goals, holistic nutrition supports long-term vitality, hormonal balance, and energy alignment. It’s not just about the food on your plate—it’s about your lifestyle, stress, sleep, digestion, emotional state, and even your relationship to pleasure.

In my coaching, I tailor nutritional support to help optimize:

  • Sexual health and libido Hormonal harmony (testosterone, cortisol, estrogen detoxification)

  • Blood sugar and mood regulation

  • Gut and liver health (crucial for energy and desire)

    This is about eating in a way that fuels your erections, orgasms, stamina, confidence, and power—not just your abs. Holistic nutrition is sustainable. It’s personalized. And it’s about reconnecting to your body’s wisdom—so you can feel strong, alive, and sexually lit from the inside out.

What does the $6000 private coaching investment include?

You’ll receive 10 deep-dive, 75-minute sessions with Emma over 3 months, along with personalized practices, accountability, and guided tools to integrate your transformation between sessions. Expect breathwork, movement, nutrition, self-pleasure rituals, and masculine embodiment training—curated for your body and goals.

Can I speak to Emma before committing?

Yes—once your application is submitted and approved, you'll be invited to a 30-minute connection call with Emma to explore mutual fit and ask any remaining questions.

To honor the sacredness of this work and protect the container from misaligned energy, a $300 fee is required to book the call. This amount is fully refunded if we move forward into the 10-session coaching package—or can be applied to another offering if it's a better fit.

Emma only works with clients who are a full-bodied YES—men who are committed, coachable, and ready to invest in their transformation. This call ensures your desires align with the depth of the journey she offers. This is not a casual consultation. It’s a sacred threshold—your first step into powerful, embodied change.

Are payment plans available?

Yes, a 3-month payment plan is available upon request. Full payment is preferred to create energetic commitment and focus, but flexibility is offered for aligned clients.

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