Your Sexuality is for You!
Hello my Darling,
Do you sometimes feel that sex is something you need to give your partner or something you use to get love?
I've been feeling deeply into this truth in the past couple days and wanted to remind you: “Your sexuality is for you.”
Repeat out loud three times:
MY SEXUALITY IS FOR ME.
What do you feel?
When I say it, it feels liberating and powerful to me.
And... it sits at the heart of true Tantric understanding.
Let’s breathe into it together for a moment.
My sexuality is for me.
In conventional culture, especially shaped by centuries of conditioning—patriarchal systems, media narratives, religious dogma—sexuality is often portrayed as something we give to others, or something we use to get love, validation, or power. It's transactional, performative, goal-oriented.
You're sexy for someone, you perform for someone, you climax for someone, or with someone, and if you’re not doing it “right,” you're somehow broken or less than. As a woman I've felt the pressure of this, I have felt my sexuality was a burden and I know you have too. Oh I know you have!
I want to invite you to play with the thought that your sexuality really is yours and to try this on for a while. How would you approach intimacy then?
It changes everything doesn't it?
Instead of “Am I doing this right?” or “Did I please them?” you begin to ask:
What is alive in me right now?
What does my body/my cock want to express?
What emotion or truth is moving through me?
This shift is radical. Because once you realize your sexuality is yours, it stops being a performance and becomes a practice—of intimacy, presence, healing, and expansion. It becomes a source of wisdom, not confusion. A path to transformation, not tension.
So yes, beloved, your sexuality is for you. Not in a selfish or disconnected way—but in a deeply integrated, empowered, and sovereign way. And when two (or more) people come together in that wholeness? That’s when the magic really begins.
I'd love the opportunity to teach the Tantric and Holistic Sex practices that help you tune in, not out, with my Warrior's Calling Journey to become a Tantric Lover, and a Master of Love and Leadership in the bedroom and beyond.
This Warrior's Calling is my Tantric Temple and it's a SAFE space.When your sexuality becomes yours, it becomes a space of exploration rather than expectation. You’re not trying to meet anyone else’s script—you’re listening to your own body, your energy, your rhythm. My intention and mission is to create the space for you to explore your own sexuality, connect with your penis in a new way and free yourself sexually.
If you trust my process, here's the link to learn more: The Warrior's Calling
Below is my picture teaching a live Tantra Yoga class for Men recently. I love it so much! I've been doing it for a decade!!! My first Broga Yoga Class (Yoga for bros:)) was in 2015.
