Venus shares what she experienced in our Couple's Tantric Sex session with her man...

"Our session yesterday was truly breathtaking. :) It was such a PLEASURE to receive this guided experience with Garret. I felt truly comfortable and relaxed in our container, and appreciated your sense of connection and professionalism.

Some of my favorite pieces were the continued reminder of “going slower than you think is slow” — it really helped me tune in and realize the reason for this is that it gives us exponential time to tune into every single sensation as the hands glide across the surface of the skin. There is SO MUCH sensation happening in every single point that is traversed. What a joy to be able to tune into each of those micro sensations!

I additionally enjoyed being able to become aware of what each of the spots are within my pussy and feel where there was more or less sensation and what areas still need further de-armoring. It felt so good to hear the instructions and understand WHAT was actually happening down there, which then empowered me to ask for very specific things or subtle adjustments — for instance asking for the diagonal techniques to be applied to the perineum exploration. I would never have known how to ask for this or put this in words without the structure of the container.

I so appreciated Garret’s attentiveness and attunement. Additionally after our session, we chose to continue the de-armoring process. And he was the first man to really listen and honor my requests of staying in one spot and breathing with me while that point slowly released. It was such a deepening of trust and surrender. To be honored in that way.

Since Garret and I are newly entering into our relationship and slowly building to our full consummation, it was a beautiful experience to feel him gently and lovingly hold his presence on my heart point at the tip of my cervix. Feeling into those sensations and energetic frequencies was delicious and truly HEART OPENING. I feel such a profound and ever deepening connection with him since this experience, and I look forward to continuing this practice together as much as possible. I love removing the goal of orgasm or ejaculation and just focusing on all of the energetic healing that is available. And that makes the experience so much more full of pleasure, presence, depth and love.

I had a profound realization last summer that may seem obvious, but I think that our culture has gotten away from which is that “Relaxation is SEXY.” I have been doing SO MUCH emotional and energetic healing on myself for the past couple of years. To have found a man and a practice who is willing to deepen with me on the PHYSICAL level to release and de-armor all that stored energy from my body feels like I have won the jackpot!

Much love and gratitude to you Emma. And to you Garret! (Also - getting to witness Garret’s primal energy during his penis massage was mind-blowing and one of the biggest turn-ons I have experienced in a verrrry long time! How empowering to be guided through specific techniques that brought him so much pleasure, power and activation! I feel so much TURN ON and activation myself.)"