Riding the edge
Train for intensity before you're in It and get out of your head when pleasure, pressure or emotions rise.
BUILD YOUR CAPACITY TO FEEL MORE Without losing yourself -
AND PAVE THE WAY FOR GREATER INTIMACY AND ORGASMS.
What happens to you when things get too intense? During sex, do you suddenly rush toward orgasm?
When your partner gets emotional, do you tense up, get defensive, shut down, or want to get away?
Or when pressure builds, do you disconnect and stop feeling much at all?
Your reactions are patterns you can practice changing before the next intense moment arrives.
Riding the Edge is a guided Sound Self-Discovery Meditation (SSDM) that helps you recognize what happens in your body when intensity rises—and practice staying with yourself instead of automatically reacting, shutting down, or checking out.
Because the way you respond to emotional intensity often shows up in how you respond to sexual intensity too. This training is the doorway to greater pleasure and orgasms solo and with a partner.
You'll explore three different responses to intensity:
Suppression - pushing down what you're feeling
Numbing - disconnecting so you don't have to feel it
Sacred Containment - staying open and grounded while allowing yourself to feel what's actually happening
You'll experience the difference in your own body—not just learn about it.
Through breath, sound, body awareness and arousal, you'll begin noticing the subtle ways you tense, disconnect, hold back or stay present when things become intense.
This practice is for you if you...
Rush toward orgasm when pleasure gets intense.
Lose your erection or get in your head under pressure.
Shut down, withdraw, or get defensive when emotions run high.
Feel overwhelmed by your partner's emotions and don't know what to do with them.
Find yourself trying to escape uncomfortable feelings instead of staying with them.
Want to handle more pleasure, arousal and emotion without losing yourself.
START THIS WEEK.
The Transformation
FROM
Rushing, tensing, shutting down, or losing yourself when intensity rises.
TO
Staying present, open, and grounded through greater pleasure, pressure, and emotional intensity.
So you can experience more intimacy, more pleasure, and greater orgasmic capacity—without losing yourself in the intensity.
You don't have to wait for the next intense moment to practice becoming the man who can stay.
HOW TO USE THIS PRACTICE.
Practice Riding the Edge once a week, alternating it with other SSDMs.
Return to it especially when you notice yourself struggling with intensity in sex, intimacy, relationships, or life—to keep building your capacity to stay present with what you feel.
The practice is “simple” (I didn’t say easy…): feel more without losing yourself—so you can stay connected to yourself and to her.
The more consistently you practice...
...the more she feels your presence when things get intense.
When you don’t shut down, pull away, defend, or rush to manage or lessen the intensity...
...she feels that you can stay steady with her through it all.
You become the mountain.
The steady presence she can soften into, open to, and trust.
And the more deeply she trusts your presence, the more she can let go into her pleasure—opening the way to deeper orgasms, intimacy, love, respect and admiration.
Press Play This Week.
Practice before the next wave rises.
Let her feel that when things get intense, you're still there.
Let her feel that when the waves rise, you're not going anywhere.
Riding The Edge SSDM
Train your hips to generate power, rhythm, and intention while increasing stamina, control, and erotic leadership. Rewire your body away from porn habits and become a more connected, grounded lover who leads with his body instead of performing for her.