love into her
Learn to make love in a way that cracks her - and you - open.
Cultivate the presence, love and connection that awakens her desire for more sex with you—while allowing you to feel deeply loved, received, connected and wanted.
What if making love could leave you both wanting more?
Imagine making love in a way that allows her to feel deeply met, loved and safe enough to open more fully with you.
Her trust deepens. Her body softens. Her desire grows.
And as she opens to receive you, you get to receive her too—to feel her love, her desire, her openness and how much she wants you.
"Love Into Her" is
You’ll practice bringing your heart into your sexuality, staying connected as pleasure intensifies, and remaining open and present after the peak—so that making love becomes an experience of devotion that nourishes, opens and connects you both.
This practice is for you if you...
You want to make love to a woman in a way she can deeply feel.
You want to cultivate the presence that allows her to trust you, soften and open more fully with you.
You want to awaken her desire for more sex with you—and have her initiate it too.
You want to feel deeply loved, received, connected and wanted during sex.
You want your connection to continue and deepen after orgasm.
YOUR PRESENCE CHANGES THE WAY SHE EXPERIENCES YOU
Your breath, your pace, your attention, your touch and your ability to stay connected to your own body all shape the way a woman experiences you.
When your sexual energy is connected to your heart, she can feel the love within your desire.
Your presence gives her space to soften.
Your attention allows her to feel met.
Your openness allows you to receive her response.
This is Devotional Lovemaking.
In Tantra, devotion transforms sexual energy into an offering of love.
You bring your desire, your pleasure, your heart and your full presence to the woman before you. You honor her with your attention. You receive her as deeply as you give yourself to her. And you stay open and connected through the intensity and beyond it.
Sex becomes an expression of love you can both feel.
Some practices may feel unfamiliar.
Tantric self-pleasure may look and feel very different from the way you usually masturbate.
In Love Into Her, you’ll be guided to:
Breathe between your sexual center and your heart, connecting arousal with love and tenderness.
Touch your whole body slowly and sensually, expanding pleasure beyond your penis and increasing your capacity to feel.
Stay below the edge of orgasm, learning to hold greater arousal while remaining relaxed, open and present.
Visualize your Beloved through all five senses, bringing the woman you love—or long to love—into your embodied experience.
Circulate sexual energy through your body, rather than concentrating all of your arousal in your penis toward release.
Deepen your presence after the peak, feeling your body, your heart and the connection instead of immediately moving on or falling asleep.
STAY WITH HER AFTER THE PEAK PLEASURE
Devotional Lovemaking continues after orgasm.
The moments afterward are some of the most important moments of your lovemaking. This is where intimacy can deepen. Let her continue to feel your presence, your attention and your love.
In Love Into Her, you practice staying present after the peak so your body learns that pleasure and connection belong together.
The way a woman feels after sex becomes part of what her body remembers about sex with you.
When she leaves your arms feeling loved, connected, cherished and deeply met, you are cultivating the kind of sexual experience her body can look forward to returning to.
And when she wants to return, you may experience something you deeply desire too:
Her wanting more sex with you—and initiating it.
How you love her after the peak matters just as much as how you love her on the way there.
Practice it now, so staying connected becomes natural when she is in your arms.
FOR THE GREATEST IMPACT
Bring Devotional Lovemaking into about 50% of your masturbation sessions. Enjoy the other 50% however you naturally self-pleasure.
With practice, you’ll experience more presence, connection and embodiment in all you own pleasure practices—and less attention lost in your head or outward in fantasy.
You are cultivating a way of loving yourself and the woman in your arms with greater presence, devotion and connection.
Practice Love Into Her tonight. Become the lover you want to be before your next intimate encounter.
The Transformation
FROM
Sex and self-pleasure focused primarily on stimulation, fantasy and release.
TO
Devotional Lovemaking—embodied, heart-connected sexuality that allows you to feel more, love more deeply, stay connected through and after pleasure, and create the kind of intimacy that leaves you both wanting more.
Trust your heart.
Trust your love.
Trust your devotion.
Trust what opens when you give yourself fully.
love into her SSDM
Cultivate the presence, generosity, and reverence that every woman longs to feel. This is a 50-minute guided Tantric self-pleasure practice in devotional lovemaking—learning to bring your heart, your sexual energy and your full presence into the way you love a woman.